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You need to know how to be comfortable talking to people. If you have problems with having a conversation with a woman, maybe you're just . You'll be more confident, and that will lead to.... I'm not saying that it's a catch all solution to your problem, but if your goal when talking to women online is to eventually meet them in real life, you could always cheat the system and practice talking to them in the real world too. If you setup an okcupid or whatever account you're saying hi to a woman who has probably been hit on 30 times in the past day. Things like saying hi to people at the grocery store and other places, smiling more often, and so on.
If you go to a nice club, with a haircut and clean clothes and approach a woman, she may have only been talked to by a few guys in the past hour. Use dating sites to practice having conversations, but its a sucker's game. Do you fall in love with a girl just because she occasionally helps you out? You fall in love because of looks and character and her behaviour and likely because of a well formed personality. Oh, you sent 70 applications and still no one took you? Go places that look interesting alone--become a regular, develop zones of comfort outside your work/school and your home.
Go and get a hobby, join a club, do something that you haven't done before. It feels like the barrier for entry is that you've already gotten over the barrier for entry.
I'm still trying, mainly because what the fuck else am I going to do, but its not going well.
There's a terrible lack of positive, older men who can give life advice out there. Deal with it, accept that you have a good friend, and move on. But don't whine how cruel the girl is because she doesn't let you hump her even when you fix her computer. Instant gratification through TV and fast food and those fake achievements of games that come in exactly that interval that keeps you hooked. Clicking a button and doing fun things will rarely make you successful. Of course, even hard work doesn't guarantee anything. You can sit in front of your computer, doing your job with average results while you spend time on reddit - and you still think you deserve a raise? Women can smell a man that has confidence in himself.
Frankly, my Dad passed away 10 years ago and I'd still like to ask him some things now and then. I'll do as much as I can to help it to be a good place. There is this weird mentally, especially on circlejerking places like Reddit, that somehow you deserve to have all the things you want. You wake up and don't bother to shower but still expect people to enjoy your company? I can’t prove this scientifically, but other men look up to you, and the women follow naturally. You probably can’t be obese, but you don’t have to be jacked. A witty sense of humor and an educated mind goes a long way. I'm 27, and I've been trying to get over my own issues very hard for the last year or so.
I'd say half of my partners, 4, have come from here and I used it for 6 months (then year break then used it about another year before stopping again)Is this for real? Your goal is to make her cum so hard that she forgets her own name.
As a gay man, I can pick any random gay site, even if it's crap and small and find some penis in like, 5 clicks. The women are there for sex, act like you are too and don't beat around the bush. But you know one thing: If you never try you will always fail, every day, every hour, every second. Manage that, and she'll probably return the favor. Throw her back down and give her round two, then round three.
That you deserve the great body, healthy skin, perfect job, high pay, amazing holidays, the new computer or your dream fulfilled. There is no one in the universe that looks at you and says "well, you deserve to have all these things, I am going to give them to you". If you can read this you probably already had many great things thrown at you for which you didn't do a thing. The whole concept of "deserving" something, punishment or reward, is based on an ancient logic that there is somebody watching over us who can read your mind and rewards you for merely being good and punishes you for merely being bad. And you should be happy about that, because else probably you would be starving and not the Indian farmer who works 14 hours a day to feed his family and still half his children die from diarrhea and he himself with 30 from starvation. You can be one of the 1% or so lucky ones, those who get things for merely being born in the right family, or with the right looks or the incredible mental skills. I'm trying now to develop some new hobbies that are more likely to attract women, but for about 20 years my main hobby has been working on and playing with computers.I guess I'll check out that book, I've got nothing better to do really.r/sex is for civil discussions about all facets of sexuality and sexual relationships.