Dating for 7 years and no commitment
Or, he might plan some really romantic way to propose as a total surprise. I think you should set some internal deadline for yourself. Even though you've been together for 7 years, I've noticed that many men don't like to get married in their early or mid-20s and would rather wait a bit longer. It's in his hands, and I trust that yes he does want to marry me, and its a good feeling when he's the one who's ready to do it. Keep in mind that yes, you have been together for 7 years.also realize that for some guys, getitng married at 24 can be a scary thing.A woman I know woke up one morning and her boyfriend planned a surprise romantic trip to Rome, asked her boss for time off, etc.... I don't know - like maybe 1 year from now, or when you are 26, or whatever feels right. If you were 37, dating your bf for 7 years, i would be a lot more worried. Together 6 years, and his only real reason he could give was needing the money for the ring.all the while was spending money on his hobbies [cars and motorcycles...] I knew there was a deeper issue, and it came through. My guy is almost 29,.is finally comfortable 100% with marriage and moving onto that next step.Or perhaps one of the reasons that divorce rates are sky high is becausepeople don't wait for the right conditions?
Or perhaps one of the reasons that divorce rates are sky high is becausepeople don't wait for the right conditions?
He tells me is is gonna ask me soon, but then never does (he has been saying it for at least 2 years).
His older brother just recently got engaged in October to his gf of three years, which has made this whole situation even more difficult.
I have been waiting years for him to be ready for marriage and now that he is ready, I still have to wait?????
Whatever happened to asking someone to marrying you when you realize they are the one???My guy had brought this up, and said he was suprised that I hadn't proposed to him yet.