But sex is less like a well-oiled machine, and more like a chaotic food fair with an endless selection of ways to satisfy your appetites. If you’re among them, start with the simple tip of switching hands.
It’s time to throw a wrench in the works and shake up your routine. It can feel strange at first, the rhythm might be off—it’s almost like sex with someone new.
This is both a way to delay ejaculation and a way to extend sexual feelings in your body.
Experiment with other kinds of touch including tickling, scratching, and rubbing.
To start exploring something different, make sure you have some extended time and privacy for yourself when you aren’t trying to finish before someone interrupts.
Not everyone likes pornography, but a lot of guys do.
Most guys learn to masturbate in secret and furtive ways.
Try using long twisting strokes instead of just up and down.
Experiment with different movements, pressures, and speeds.
Treat this like a treasure hunt, and try to feel the difference between one side and the other, between stimulation near the base and up near the tip.
For many men, the balls (testicles) are a very sensitive area that responds well to touch and pressure.Speaking of which, don’t be afraid to explore the anus, both externally and by using a finger for penetration.